V- day!

comel~! :)

L o v e

Bulan bintang sang suria
Bagai saksi janji kita
Meniti hari-hari
Yang indah ini...

Gunung akan kudaki
Lautan kan aku renangi
Demi memburu mimpi
Yang pasti

Sakit Hati

had the chance to watch the Thomas Cup semi last night. Only watched the 2nd game, though. The Doubles. It only took me about 10 minutes to hold my tongue before i start lashing on the players! One of the reasons was because all the stupid, small and silly mistakes that both did! Urgh!

I couldn't bring myself to watch the 2nd set, too painful to bear :(

I am not an expert on badminton, so i should stop now :(

Anyway, congrats for making it to the semi's. Better luck next time, i guess... Its just not our year...

Mini Pelamin - Necessity or Waste?

*Purely Rantings - Over sensitive / Prone to PMS readers should click X now*

I have noticed that the trends nowadays for "Engagement" is to have a mini pelamin in the ceremony. Why is it? Is it a necessity?

IMHO, it is such a waste. 1stly, you are just getting engaged. As beautiful you are on that day, i don't think you should parade your self on the Dais, yet! Don't let me started on the Guys in matching Baju Melayu and songkok, grinning sheepishly besides his FIANCE.. Hello abang, baru tunang ok?

2ndly, i think the money that you have spent on the pelamin can be used on other things - fresh flower, door gifts, souvenir or a professional photographer. What would a nice mini pelamin do if your engagement photos are all taken via hp cams or all blurry and only a few compared to the camwh*ring phototaker?

3rdly, it should be and intimate ceremony, so the less fuss is better. Its just an engagement right? If you really wanna go OTT, do it on your wedding or akad day. It's purely YOUR day and YOU can always do it which ever you want :)

THIS is purely my OPINION. Readers are open to debate. Thanks :)

P/S: again, this is just MY OPINION

1 more week to go!

TGIF! The weekend is coming but i still can't enjoy mine, YET.. we still have a replacement class tomorrow and it ends as usual at 11.30.. unlike the last 2 week :(

to tell you the truth, you can only see my flesh and body here in QP, my mind is wandering away to KaChing eversince i got the news that my application has been rejected. Well its not really official yet, but when "TIDAK DISOKONG" is largely stamped across my form, YOU BEtcha i'll still be here when school reopens in June =_="

Urgh! Sometimes i feel like getting preggy as fast as i could so that i can transfer as fast as possible! BUT, at the same time, i know God hasn't granted our wish yet because He knows how much a crybaby i am without Hubster by my side. Biasa2 pun, macam nak mati dah rindu... Kalau preggy? =_="

Owh.. enough moaning for today. Lets be grateful for once. Alhamdulillah, i am still alive and well today, and am able to go to work, which results in money for me to go shopping... hehe.. Thank you Allah :)

Noted!

now or later? coz seriously i looked like a long haired feline already!
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Say Yes, Please :(

Finally sent out my transfer application to my HM today. I was lucky coz he was in an "OK" mood. else, i might found my form in the "To Be Shredded" bin... heh heh...

anyway, I just pray hard that he'll approve them! right now we're all in a mess cos he "forgot" his id and password! urghhh....

Ya Allah... harap2 dapatla kenak approve esok... huhu...

Right now, I just wanna enjoy my Burger Jalanan for dinner :P

p/s: mine's not as nice though... takda Ramly Burger la sini.....

p/p/s: gamba pinjam dari brader ini

NOTHING TO DO

the weekends is here... while most of us love weekends, they usually make me cringe.. well, atleast when i am here at qp.

while everyone else look forward for a relaxing quality time with their family, i usually spend my weekend in qp in front of the telly :( and harrassing Hubster with messages every 5 minutes or so...

Haih...i wish i was home... can't wait for the next weekend. I plan to go home to KaChing... I really need a break.. :(

Sorry

i am still doing my research for out itinerary for our hornyhoneymoon :)... ok, i am also bloghopping for something beachy to wear there... shorts, sundress, shades, flipflops, bikini... heh heh heh...

nanti gue hapdet btul2 yek? hehe

MODE : verangan macam vanessa and zach yang tengah frolicking kat beach.. hahahaha

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just found out about this... take note ya...

of Holidays and such..

its a Monday today, which means only 4 days left till i meet my Prince! wee... am taking a flight back this time, so its gonna be a great journey home~! :)

finished my packing last week *semangat gila* and this time, i'm bringing home the many books and files that i have here in qp.. actually, i have started moving my stuff back to KaChing bit by bit now.. Just incase i got transferred in June *Amiiiinn* then its gonna be just a few things left for me to pack and carry home! :)

anyway, my Housemate is 3months pregnant now, and she brought home her baby's first scan... she told me that seeing it moves and stretches in her belly made her cries on the spot! huhu... it must be wonderful having labour of lov in our belly like that... me? ask me in a couple of months k? :)

i need to finish our itinerary for our Honeymoon in June! coz honestly, i suck at making one! hahaha... and owh, last nite Hubster texted me, saying that his colleague gonna bring some gray kains for him to look at.. wah, my Hubster sangat thoughtful! hehe.. thanks Sayang..

owh, wanna watch Sinderella now.. I wish i can be as petite as Amani.. bes je tengok Bront ngan Fahrin lambung2 dia.. hahaha

OMG?!!!

TAKDE BENDA LAIN KE KO NAK SEARCH?!!!!

hahahahaha

Baby are you down down down down down?

its Thursday already! which means only 3 days more of holiday before school started... Uhh.. I miss the kids, I just wish I don't have to leave Hubster to meet them... Haih..

Some would suggest, why wouldn't Hubster transferred to qp... hmm.. easier said than done... No such post for him there.. haih.. me, i would have to have the wedding Cert to sokong my application... huhu

BTW, i should be filling up the form now... The closing date will be 30th March.. Please pray hard for me so I can transfer there back to KaChing k? Amiiin....

Anyway, been enjoying being a full time Housewife this past couple of days.. Doing his laundry, preparing dinner, ironing his work clothes and even making up the bed every morning... Greeting him home from work, seeing him smile as i serve him his Orange Juice... this is life... :) i just wish i could do it more often.. haih..

Speaking of, i'm actually a bit down today... i need a perk up activity.. maybe i'll go cut my hair today, and buy some make up... i wanna learn how to this!

Anyone? hehehe



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MUST.WATCH.THIS

thank God for mid term Holidays! :)

Warkah Terakhir

OMG... i am soooooooooo lambat with this cerita... just started watching them a few weeks ago, which is accidental because i was flipping thru the channel and saw the title Warkah Terakhir..

I remembered Sazzy Falak saying that she was starring in this drama and all, and of course, its about Rosly Dhoby.. :)

Today's episode was about the assasination itself... I was literally bawling when I saw Rosly (played by Beto Kushairy) apologizing to his friends and family before heading to the fair... Because they were all speaking in "Sarawakian Malay" made me cry even harder... He is so good! and so was everybody else of course...

Right now i am YouTube-ing for previous episodes of the story... huhu... layann...

1. Director's Note : Wan Hasliza Wan Zainuddin
   

Warkah Terakhir dari Rosly Dhoby

Dengan secharek kertas ini dan se‑putung pensil untuk renungan sepanjang masa. Saya si‑penulis Rosli Dhobi dalam lindungan Permai. Saudara2 dan saudari2 sa‑perjuangan, saya ta’ lama lagi akan meninggalkan jejak tanah tumpah darakku yang ku chintai, dan utama sekali ayah bunda yang ku kasehi dan saudara2 semua, dengan nama Allah sifat pemurah dan pengampun saya menyusun 10 jari mohon ampun dan maaf atas kesalahan saya yang telah terjadi selama ini, saga sanggup berkorban nyawa untuk memperbaiki raayat yang telah di‑ budaki oleh penjajah, saya mengaku dan terima apa2 kesalahan di dunia ini saya ta’genter saya ta’takut mati, saya terima hukuman yang telah di jatohkan di‑mahkamah.

Saya berdoa kepada Allah s. w. t. Saudara2 saudari2 di‑akhir kelak balek ke‑pengkuan Ibu‑pertiwi. Sungguh begitu saya sudah sanggup menghapuskan orang putih yang berasin dan datang‑nya tetapi saya sudah tidak ada di dunia ini nama saya tetap harum seluroh Dunia sa‑genap plusuk. Akhir kata, hey! Saudara2 Saudari2 sekalian berjuanglah jangan mundur majulah ka hadapan

Amin ya rabbul alamin berkat do a laillahaitlahi Munamada rasululah. Dan saga uchapkan jutaan terima kasih kepada saudara Pa. S. Allah sahajalah yang akan membalas budi jasa‑nya dengan penuh layanan, nasiha yang belom pernah di‑dengar oleh saya dari awal hingga akhir.

  Harapan ini surat jangan sekali di‑beri sesiapa pun. Simpan baik‑bai, barangkali di‑lain masa ada guna‑nya.

  Ditulis pada 1‑3‑1950

  Saya yang akan meninggalkan endah ini,

  R.D.

- Dipetik dari buku Rosli Dhobi Di Tali Gantung tulisan Rudi Affendi Hj. Khalik, 1997.



p/s: when Rosly met Ani , the Lov of his life for the last time.. he told her to wait for him if anything ever happen as he wanted to take her as his bride.. Stories has it that Ani never got married till this day.... WallahuAlam....

He likes me, he likes me NOT!

Have you ever had that feeling where you just wondered, Does he like me... too? heheh... i know most girls gets this once in a while, i was like that too when i 1st met Beh♥

1. He flashes his brows and smiles when he sees you.

Raising your brows is usually one of a smallest and simplest sign that someone notices or greets another. When we're attracted to someone, our eyebrows rise and fall subconsciously. And when the other person is similarly attracted, they raise their brows and smile in return.

2. He points his body towards you.
If he's sitting across the room, peek at his hands and toes. We always tend to point to our object of desire subconciously :) If he's next to you, squaring his body and shoulder towards you would be a very good sign!

3. He gazes at your lips while you're talking.
It's as if he can't resist caressing the rest of your face and hair with his eyes, or he's imagining what it feels like to kiss you on the lips. Nuff said! haha!

4. His pupils widen and he blinks more when looking at you.

This is a biological reaction we cannot control. If we're looking at a person we like, our pupils will dilate, so will our blink rate. The reason: When we're excited, our body releases more adrenaline which results in dilated pupils and faster blinks; the same physiological process that makes our heart pump faster and our knees weak!

5. He laughs at just about everything you say.
If his eyebrows remain slightly raised while you're talking, it signals that he finds you fascinating. Another obvious sign that he likes you a lot: He nods, smiles, laughs and agrees with just about everything you say, including the silly stuff. He's not just being cordial; he's genuinely happy to be with you! :)

So, watch out for the sign, girls! :)

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G U I L T Y

i've been guilty of neglecting my blog, and updating on my wedding news... huhu... honestly, i dunno what should i tell you guys.. huhu.. anything? Drop by and i will try to see and answer anything that i can, k? :)

Duhai Perempuan...

Ulama-ulama ada berkata, wajib bagi wanita-wanita:

1. Mengekalkan malu pada suaminya.
2. Merendahkan (menundukkan) mata ketika berpandangan.
3. Mengikut kata-kata dan suruhannya.
4. Dengar dan diam ketika suami berbicara.
5. Berdiri menyambut kedatangannya.
6. Berdiri menghantar kepergiannya,
7. Hadir bersamanya ketika masuk tidur.
8. Memakai wangi-wangian untuk suaminya.
9. Membersihkan dan menghilangkan bau mulut untuk suaminya.
10. Berhias ketika hadirnya dan tinggalkan hiasan ketika tidak adanya.
11. Tidak berkhianat ketika ketidak adaan suaminya. I. Memuliakan keluarga suaminya.
12. Memandang pemberian suami yang kecil sebagai besar dan berharga.
13. Ketahuilah, Surga dan Neraka bagi seorang wanita itu bergantung pada redha atau tidaknya suami padanya

Rasulullah SAW bersabda:

“Empat golongan wanita yang berada di syurga ialah:

1. Perempuan yang menjaga dirinya dari berbuat haram lagi berbakti kepada Allah dan suaminya.
2. Perempuan yang banyak keturunannya lagi penyabar serta menerima dengan senang hati keadaan serba kurang (dalam kehidupannya) bersama suaminya.
3. Perempuan yang bersifat pemalu dan jika suaminya datang maka ia mengekang mulutnya dari perkataan yang tidak layak kepadanya.
4. Perempuan yang ditinggal mati oleh suaminya dan mempunyai anak-anak yang masih kecil, lalu ia mengekang dininya hanya untuk mengurus anak-

Hal-hal yang menjadikan wanita itu durhaka kepada suaminya seperti tersebut dalam kitab Muhimmah:

1. Menghalang suami dari bersuka-suka dengan dirinya baik itu untuk jimak atau menyentuh mana saja bahagian tubuhnya.
2. Keluar rumah tanpa izin suami baik itu ketika suami ada di rumah ataupun tidak ada.
3. Keluar rumah karena belajar ilmu yang bukan ilmu fardhu ain. Dibolehkan keluar untuk belajar ilmu fardhu ain jika suaminya tidak mampu mengajar.
4. Tidak mau berpindah (berhijrah) bersama suaminya.
5. Mengunci pintu, tidak mengizinkan suami masuk ke rumah ketika suami ingin masuk.
6. Bermuka masam ketika berhadapan dengan suami.
7. Minta talak.
8. Berpaling atau membelakangi suami ketika berbicara.
9. Menyakiti hati suami baik itu dengan perkataan atau perbuatan.
10. Meninggalkan tempat tidur tanpa izin.
11. Mengizin kan orang lain masuk ke dalam rumah, sedangkan orang itu tidak disukai oleh suami.

Renung - renungkan lah....

I'm not pregnant, I'm just FAT T_T

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

this is the my first post ever since i came back to QP yesterday.. Yesterday was certainly one of the hardest day for me to get through as i was leaving half of my heart... T_T

after 35days of being married, for the first time last night i slept alone..

i found myself waking up every hour only to find an empty bed beside me.. huhu.. Now i understand how hard it is being away from your husband.. Trust me girls, it wasn't the same during our courtship.. sure, LDR is hard but LDR marriage is even harder! huhu

dah, cukup, takyah nangis dah...

had our first staff meeting today, and of course the only agenda that caught my attention was CUTI SEMESTER PERTAMA... hohoho...

instead of starting on the 5th of June, the amended holidays will be on the 28th of May! so i wouldn't have to take any leave before! hehehe bes bes bes..

that was the only highlight of my day... and oh, a colleague actually touched my tummy to confirm whether i was "berisi" or not.. i told her, i am just fat! huhu

alaaaaaa... gemuk balik dahhhhh... huhuhu

Dr SMS and Dr Halina |010110 - 101010|

congrats to our Astronaut Dr. Sheikh for his betrothal to the lovely Dr. Halina, today. Both looked lovely in traditional clothes and sangat2 berseri..

i especially adore Dr. Halina's dress... cantikkkk sangat... ni yang buat nak carik kain pale pink tuk wat baju raya thn nih! hahahahaha

they have planned to tied the knot on 10 October 2010, which is a lovely date to be married to.. hehe..

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p/s: kalau Dr. sms masih jugak lupe ngan anniversary dia tak taulaaaaaaa.... hehehe

Boxing Day...

not in the mood of updating much this 2 days... by next sunday, i'll be back into the glorious woods of qp, having our first academic meeting... huhuhu

why does the holidays seems so short when you are having fun? huhuhuhu..

gonna miss my hubster so much :'(